Toxic Relative

My sister's name is Melanie. My sister is 4 years younger than me.  Melanie has 3 children, two of whom  have blocked her from their telephones.  Melanie is good with numbers and has a good job.  Melanie drinks 6-8 beers per night.  After around 7 pm, she is drunk.  When she is drunk, she likes to send cruel texts to whomever hasn't blocked her calls.     Melanie is  filled with venom about the past when, in fact, she was the most loved and cared for sibling in our family.  Melanie moved to Mangum 5 years ago, after I had been here 6 years.  Melanie is waiting for mother to die so that she can retire from work and live off of her inheritance.  She told me  this. 

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